Thursday, December 18, 2008

I hope Mom is laughing

My father had a great sense of humor and he often teased my mother by saying that she had none. It wasn’t a fair comment, she had a sense of humor but it didn’t come close to being as active as his. I learned early on that she loved children and dogs and she liked cute stories about them too. Over the years I saved my stories about these two subjects to share with her because, like most kids, I liked to make my mother laugh.

My mother died five weeks ago and I have stories with no place to go.

The movie Marley and Me is coming out soon and it’s just the kind of story that would have had her in tears with laughter.

My daughter is going to Michigan for Christmas, to help my brothers close-out our family home. Since I can’t travel right now, she’s going to pack for me.

Lots of luck with that!

I have no idea how she’s going to determine what’s important to me, or even her and her brothers, from over fifty years of seven lives in a large house that was very much a home.

Every time I see the commercials for Marley and Me, my mind immediately goes to Regina will be in Michigan, she can take Mom. . . oh wait. Then I stop and remember why she’s going to be there.

My father was a big fan of Seinfeld. After he passed away, I wondered if he somehow got a chance to see how the Seinfeld sitcom ended. I strongly believe there a wide variety of opportunities on the other side to participate in what we over here call leisure time activities.

My mother is with her best friend now, my Aunt Vivian. They used to go to woman’s day at the movies for half price. I hope they’ll take the time to see this movie and Mom gets a chance to laugh.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

Jackie:
That was very nice and very touching.

Unknown said...

JACKIE;
MY PREVIOUS COMMENT WAS INCORRECT."I HOPE MOM IS LAUGHING" WAS BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN AND VERY TOUCHING. WITH YOUR LOSS BEING SO RECENT I GIVE YOU A LOT OF CREDIT FOR BEING SO EXPRESSIVE AND SHARING YOUR THOUGHTS WITH THE CYBER WORLD. YOUR PARENTS WOULD BE PLEASED AND PROUD. KEEP UP THE OUTSTANDING WORK.